Isn’t the word ‘tolerance’ a little worn? If tolerance now means reducing difference, then I think we should stop using it. We seem so afraid of conflict that we don’t talk about what we care about any longer. But this is affecting the strength, particularity and beauty of our identities. Meeting others in the middle should not mean leaving ourselves behind. That’s why a respectful interaction with difference will necessarily entail disagreement. The task is less to reduce and more to refine that disagreement. Then we will really give something of ourselves, and take something from others; then we will really be sharing ground. |